Attachment
Let’s Hear it for Sleepovers!
by Betsy on Sep.26, 2011, under Attachment, Parenting, Safety
First Night Away From Home (Franklin Watts, 1960) was one of the many books written by mother, Myra Berry Brown. In this sweet story, we follow 5 year old Stevie from proudly packing his suitcase to noticing, as bedtime gets closer, that “David’s room looked different at... Read more...
:Sleepovers
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Sleep-Away Camp Separations
by Betsy on Jun.05, 2011, under Attachment, Parenting, Separation, Transitions
Way back in February you sent in the deposit. Sleep-away camp, here we come! It was going to be fantastic—swimming in the lake, roasting marshmallows by the campfire, pillow fights in the cabin. Just weeks before opening day, your son’s excitement fills the air. I get... Read more...
:Experiences, Feelings, leaving home, Letting go, Parental attachment, Sleep away camp
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Playing Favorites
by Betsy on Aug.31, 2010, under Attachment, Parenting, Relationships
“Mother always liked you best” claimed Tommy Smothers of the old comedy duo of the 60’s and 70’s, The Smothers Brothers. They were comedians, but that gag struck a chord, as the audience laughed and cried at the same time.
“Who do you love the most?” No matter... Read more...
:family, Father-Child Bond, Favoring one child, favorite child, Feelings, Mother-child bond, Parental attachment, Playing favorites, Siblings
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Life is Full of Separations
by Betsy on Jul.11, 2010, under Attachment, Parenting, Separation
The emails were all the same: “I just can’t stop crying…my daughter hasn’t even been gone for 24 hours, and I miss her already.” wrote the mother whose ten year old was off to sleep away camp for the first time. “The house is so quiet. At... Read more...
:leaving home, Letting go, Mother-child bond, Parental attachment, school separation, Separation, Sleep away camp
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Leave the Babies Alone?
by Betsy on May.13, 2010, under Attachment, Environmental influences, Parent modeling, Parenting
It’s hard not to love the movie Babies. That’s what I chose to do for my Mothers’ Day observance. It was kind of like eating chocolate… all good! There were none of the not-so-fun parts of babies, like colic and diarrhea and sleepless nights. Just one... Read more...
:babies, Modeling, overparenting, Overscheduling, Parental attachment, Parenting
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The “Right” Age for Video Games
by Betsy on Mar.26, 2010, under Adolescents, Attachment, Behavior, Parenting, Peers, Transitions
With your first born child, it’s pretty easy to control his diet of everything—sugar, television, war toys, choice of friends—for the first few years anyway. But then he hits school age, somewhere after five years old, kindergarten age, and the once controlling parent begins to question some... Read more...
:addiction, Boundaries, complaining, consequences, content, games, Limits, Media, negotiation, privileges, technology, TV watching, Values, Video Games, whining
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What’s Love Got To Do With It?
by Betsy on Feb.12, 2010, under Attachment, Holidays, Parenting
With Valentine’s Day always comes lots of talk about love. I love you, Mommy. I love my teacher. I love chocolate. I love making Valentines.
Kids are exposed to the word the moment the cord is cut in the delivery room. And it is reinforced and expanded over... Read more...
:Father-Child Bond, love, marriage, Mother-child bond, Valentine's Day
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The Height of Mother Love
by Betsy on Nov.21, 2009, under Attachment, Holidays, Parenting
This time of year when teachers ask their young children what each is thankful for, a good 90% respond enthusiastically, "My mommy!" It's not only that kids are copycats, saying just what the child before him has said, it's also that kids get it. They really are thankful... Read more...
:bonding, Mother-child bond, Parental attachment, Thanksgiving, where do babies come from
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Attachment, Regardless of Age
by Betsy on Sep.08, 2009, under Attachment, Separation
I don't know a person in the world whose breath was not taken away by the story of Jaycee Dugard's homecoming. Isn't it every parent's worst nightmare that her child will be stolen from her, never to be seen, hugged, kissed again? It' would be like someone... Read more...
:Attachment, Parental attachment
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Cousin Sarah’s kids
by Betsy on Aug.04, 2009, under Attachment, Behavior
The topic for my first blog on my new website had been on my mind when I paid a visit to my cousin Sarah and her boys, ages 5 and 7. After spending the afternoon with them, I knew I had found my topic.
Sarah lives in a... Read more...
:afterschool, computer, entertainment, extracurricular activities, fear, Media, Play, TV watching
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