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Holidays

Redirecting the Holiday Gimmes

by on Dec.18, 2014, under Parenting, Communication, Brat-Proofing, Character traits, Expectations, Toddlers, Holidays

Sugar Plum fairies and fa la la la la are not the only things that come with the winter holidays. So does a parent’s worst fear that she has raised the spoiled child she swore she would never have. At no other time of year do the... Read more...
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Putting the Happy Back in Birthday

by on Dec.02, 2014, under Parenting, Brat-Proofing, Toddlers, Holidays, Public Behavior, Sensitive Topics

"Amanda is 2!" read the banner draped over the entrance to our neighborhood park.  And that was just the beginning.  A cooking area complete with printed aprons (“Amanda’s  2nd Birthday”) and chef's hats for each child, a craft area with three different creation stations, a pony ride... Read more...
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Grandparents and Gift Giving: An Unspoken December Dilemma

by on Nov.19, 2013, under Behavior, Parent modeling, Parenting, Communication, Relationships, Character traits, Child development, Holidays, Elementary School Children

There is a dilemma that accompanies the winter holiday season that is rarely discussed out loud. It certainly is a topic that is dominating my parenting groups this month. That is, how do parents deal with grandparents who want to do as they please with their grandchildren... Read more...
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All that Halloween Candy

by on Oct.27, 2013, under Parent modeling, Parenting, Learning, Holidays

In a well watched video (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_YQpbzQ6gzs)  Jimmy Kimmel shows kids’ reactions to the news that their parents have eaten all their Halloween candy. Kimmel claims he was surprised to see how really upset many kids were. Not I! Kids love their Halloween candy. I repeat, they LOVE... Read more...
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Time Release Gifts

by on Dec.02, 2012, under Parenting, Environmental influences, Relationships, Expectations, Toddlers, Child development, Adolescents, Holidays, Elementary School Children

Chanukah is around the corner, and there are just three weeks until Christmas. The world is kicking into high gear for the holidays. It’s inescapable. The media, advertisers, merchants are targeting our children and us, pointing us towards their ultimate goal:  buy buy buy. It’s no wonder... Read more...
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You Are Who You Are When No One is Looking

by on Sep.09, 2012, under Behavior, Parent modeling, Parenting, Communication, Environmental influences, Learning, Character traits, Expectations, Toddlers, Child development, Holidays

The mother unwrapped the straw, poked it into the little box, and handed the drink to her toddler as they walked out of the grocery store. The sliver of straw paper slipped from the mother’s hand. I doubt that she even noticed it. Rolling my grocery cart back... Read more...
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Whose Birthday Party Is It?

by on Jan.23, 2012, under Parenting, Brat-Proofing, Expectations, Child development, Holidays

I might hold the record for having given the most single birthday parties. Each of my kids (triplets) had his/her own party from age two years old on up. It’s not that I am a glutton for punishment; it’s that there’s not much that is all yours... Read more...
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The Un-Resolution

by on Dec.31, 2011, under Parent modeling, Parenting, Communication, Environmental influences, Relationships, Child development, Holidays

I don’t like New Year’s resolutions. They scream failure. It doesn’t start that way. But inevitably the best laid plans… Two weeks into that new diet, that exercise routine, that tidy bedroom, and it’s back to square one and self-flagellation. Oh well, maybe next year. That doesn’t mean... Read more...
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Holiday Envy

by on Dec.17, 2011, under Parent modeling, Parenting, Communication, Learning, Child development, Holidays

Let’s face it, Christmas is everywhere. Even in cities heavily populated by Chanukah celebrants, Christmas rules, as the streets are dressed in sparkles and twinkle lights and red and green and fa la la.   It’s no wonder that cries of “I want to have a Christmas tree!”... Read more...
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“Is Santa Real, Mommy?”

by on Dec.04, 2011, under Parenting, Communication, Learning, Holidays, Sensitive Topics

One of the signs (sometimes laced with a bit of sadness) that your child is growing up is when the inevitable question comes, Is Santa real? While it seems so simple, it is one that puts many a parent into a tail spin.  What should I say?... Read more...
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