Parenting
by Betsy on Jan.23, 2012, under Brat-Proofing, Child development, Expectations, Holidays, Parenting
I might hold the record for having given the most single birthday parties. Each of my kids (triplets) had his/her own party from age two years old on up. It’s not that I am a glutton for punishment; it’s that there’s not much that is all yours...
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:Birthday parties; Birthday favors; Birthday party guest lists; competition and birthday parties;birthday celebrations
by Betsy on Jan.11, 2012, under Adolescents, Behavior, Environmental influences, Learning, Parent modeling, Parenting, Safety
The thought of getting a driver’s license is thrilling to teens. To most parents, it’s terrifying. Attached to the little paper that brings wheels and freedom to your child is an expanded list of worries for you. Not only are all the other drivers on the road...
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:Teens; Driving; Learning to Drive; Modeling; Parent modeling; Distracted driving; Safe Driving; Driving safety
by Betsy on Dec.31, 2011, under Child development, Communication, Environmental influences, Holidays, Parent modeling, Parenting, Relationships
I don’t like New Year’s resolutions. They scream failure. It doesn’t start that way. But inevitably the best laid plans… Two weeks into that new diet, that exercise routine, that tidy bedroom, and it’s back to square one and self-flagellation. Oh well, maybe next year.
That doesn’t mean...
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:parenting; mindful parenting; active parenting; new years resolutions; resolutions; TED talks; Louie Schwartzberg;
by Betsy on Dec.17, 2011, under Child development, Communication, Holidays, Learning, Parent modeling, Parenting
Let’s face it, Christmas is everywhere. Even in cities heavily populated by Chanukah celebrants, Christmas rules, as the streets are dressed in sparkles and twinkle lights and red and green and fa la la. It’s no wonder that cries of “I want to have a Christmas tree!”...
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:Holiday; Christmas; Chanukah; Christmas trees; Jews celebrating Christmas; Jews and Christmas trees
by Betsy on Dec.04, 2011, under Communication, Holidays, Learning, Parenting, Sensitive Topics
One of the signs (sometimes laced with a bit of sadness) that your child is growing up is when the inevitable question comes, Is Santa real? While it seems so simple, it is one that puts many a parent into a tail spin. What should I say?...
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:Chrismas folklore, Christmas, Holiday myths, Is Santa real?, Lying, santa, Xmas
by Betsy on Nov.14, 2011, under Character traits, Holidays, Parent modeling, Parenting
There isn't a school around that doesn't step up the giving spirit as Thanksgiving and the winter holidays approach. Mini vans are jammed with cans of corn and candied yams to replenish the city's depleted food pantry shelves. Bags upon bags of gently used clothing are distributed...
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:Thanksgiving; Giving; Sharing; Charity; Philanthropy;Teaching charity
by Betsy on Nov.06, 2011, under Brat-Proofing, Character traits, Parent modeling, Parenting
(Posted for the second time...that;s how important this one is!)
“You will not believe this story,” began the email from a client who had just returned from family services for the Jewish New Year. She described the mother and three children sitting next to her own family. “She...
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:Parenting; Parent modeling; Communication; Hypocrisy; Honesty; Be the Person;
by Betsy on Nov.02, 2011, under Behavior, Brat-Proofing, Communication, Parenting, Toddlers
How amazing is it that all kids seem to whine at some time or other? Seriously, how is it that they all use the same tone? Is that capacity just part of the factory-equipped model of child? Truth be told, it kind of is…the capacity, that is.
Children...
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:bratty behavior, Child behavior, Communication, Parenting, Stop whining, Toddlers, whining
by Betsy on Oct.17, 2011, under Holidays, Parenting
Yesterday I watched a neighbor’s nanny drape the front shrubs with that spider webby stuff in anticipation of Halloween. Such fun, I thought. Then I noticed her charges, two little guys ages 8 and 5 were right there…watching. As far as I could tell, their job was...
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:Halloween, Halloween memories, Home made costumes
by Betsy on Sep.26, 2011, under Attachment, Parenting, Safety
First Night Away From Home (Franklin Watts, 1960) was one of the many books written by mother, Myra Berry Brown. In this sweet story, we follow 5 year old Stevie from proudly packing his suitcase to noticing, as bedtime gets closer, that “David’s room looked different at...
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:Sleepovers
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