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A Must Read–More Fall Out from the Tiger Mom

by Betsy on Aug.11, 2011, under Learning, Parenting

Simply put, the following is a link to an article that I believe is a must read. “10 Unsettling Education Trends Started By Tiger Moms” http://www.onlinecolleges.net/2011/08/10/10-unsettling-education-trends-started-by-tiger-moms/ Not only is the information powerful and important in the lives of parents and children, but it is incredibly thought provoking. Let me know... Read more...

:Education, Enrichment classes, Parent as teacher, Parenting, Perfectionism, Pressure, Race to Nowhere, Stress, Teachers, Tiger Moms 7 Comments

Look At That Lady’s Nose!

by Betsy on Aug.07, 2011, under Character traits, Environmental influences, Parent modeling, Parenting, Toddlers

Young children notice difference. As they try to make sense of their world, they pay attention to regularity and irregularity, what is familiar and what is not. And there is no judgment involved, just recognition of difference. Truth be told, most people notice difference. It’s no big... Read more...

:Beliefs, Compassion, Gender Orientation, judgement, kindness, Parent as teacher, Parent bad behavior, Parenting, tolerance, Values 2 Comments

The Lazy Days of Summer? No way!

by Betsy on Jul.09, 2011, under Learning, Parent modeling, Parenting, Public Behavior

First it was red jello. Then it was sugary juice. Now summer is the enemy! And it’s getting a bad rap. Summer Slide. Brain Drain. Whatever you call it, what was once the most carefree and welcome season of the year is being vilified as a threat... Read more...

:Academics, Experiences, Family Trips, Interactive learning, Learning in Summer, Overscheduling, Parent as teacher, Summer, Trips, Vacations 3 Comments

Right in Your Own Yard– A Blog for Father’s Day

by Betsy on Jun.14, 2011, under Parent modeling, Parenting, Relationships

The window at my kitchen sink gives me a bird’s eye view of the happenings on my street. Recently, I witnessed a scene fit for a Norman Rockwell painting. Five year old Owen was side by side with the gardener, mowing the front lawn. Two guys pushing... Read more...

:Appreciation, Attachment, connectedness, Enrichment classes, Experiences, father and child bond, Fathering, fathers, Overscheduling, Parent as teacher, Parental attachment 5 Comments

Revisiting 9/11: Talking to Children About Terrorism

by Betsy on May.10, 2011, under Communication, Parenting, Safety, Sensitive Topics

Following the news of Bin Laden’s death, I received a rash of calls from parents wondering how to explain 9/11 to their elementary school age children. Most of these children were a mere twinkle in their parents’ eyes on September 11, 2001. Referencing that horrible event was... Read more...

:9/11, Parent as teacher, talking to children about terrorism, Teachers, Terrorism 2 Comments

Should You Discipline Someone Else’s Child?

by Betsy on Apr.18, 2011, under Discipline, Parent modeling, Parenting, Peers, Safety

It’s hard enough to raise your own child—teaching him the rules of the road, guiding him as he learns how to “play nicely”—but what happens when a child who is not yours is in need of some pointed guidance (a swift kick in the pants, perhaps!)? You’re having... Read more...

:Beliefs, correcting someone else's child, disciplining someone else's child, Limits, Manners, Misbehavior, Modeling, Parent as teacher, parent bad behavoir, playdate, playdate rules, Values, when to intervene with another child 22 Comments

A Parent Should Be A Parent…Not A Friend

by Betsy on Apr.04, 2011, under Behavior, Child development, Learning, Parenting, Peers, Relationships, Safety

Every time I hear a parent brag that her child is her best friend, I cringe and think, “Well, that’s too bad.” The job description of parent is mighty long—nurturer, teacher, advisor, consultant, guide, spotter, disciplinarian, consoler, cheerleader. But I am quite sure “friend” is not on... Read more...

:Boundaries, Drinking, Kids and Alcohol, Limits, Melt downs, Overscheduling, parent as parent, Parent as teacher, saying NO, Tantrums 7 Comments

The Unmentionable: Wiping Your Child

by Betsy on Mar.07, 2011, under Parenting, Toddlers, Transitions

Sheepishly, the mom asked, “Should I still be wiping my seven year old’s tush after he makes a poop?” Some of you might be gasping in horror, but others of you are nodding in agreement as you wonder the same thing. The third time in a week... Read more...

:Letting go, Parent as teacher, Toilet habits, Toilet Training, Wiping your child 17 Comments

The Gift That Keeps On Giving

by Betsy on Dec.25, 2010, under Character traits, Holidays, Learning, Parent modeling, Parenting

Every year my friend Freida gives me a surprising gift. Far out pop-up books, foodstuffs from the Homeboy Industries-Homegirl Catering and Kitchen, DVD’s of documentaries I might have missed. But this year’s is the best: Of Thee I Sing: A letter to my daughters by Barack Obama. I... Read more...

:Beliefs, Books, Christmas, family, family conversations, Family meals, Modeling, Parent as teacher, Reading, Values 1 Comment

Join the Family

by Betsy on Oct.16, 2010, under Parent modeling, Parenting, Public Behavior

The “perfect” family—mom, dad, and two girls probably ages 6 and 9—sat across from my husband and me as we dined at a local restaurant to launch our weekend As hard as I try, when I am out in the world I cannot help but notice... Read more...

:Eating out, Fathering, Hypocrisy, Modeling, Parent as teacher, Parent bad behavior Leave a Comment