Tag: Respect
Excuse Me…Part II: Phonus Interruptus
by Betsy on Jan.30, 2011, under Behavior, Communication, Discipline, Expectations, Parent modeling, Parenting
Isn’t it amazing that as soon as the phone rings and you answer it, someone else needs you? This phenomenon, phonus interruptus, is pervasive in homes all across the country. Further, the more you tell your child that you are on the phone (as if he hasn’t noticed)... Read more...
:cell phone, interruptions, Manners, Respect, Telephone
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Excuse Me…and Dont’ Interrupt!
by Betsy on Jan.09, 2011, under Behavior, Discipline, Expectations, Parenting
As often happens, over the weekend I ran into a client at the grocery store. Mid aisle we stopped for a brief greeting. As soon as the mom began to speak to me, her son piped up with, “Mom, Mom, can we get some Gatorade?” tugging at... Read more...
:Delaying gratification, Interrupting, interruptions, Manners, Mistakes, Patience, Respect
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Be the Person You Want Your Child to Be
by Betsy on Sep.21, 2010, under Character traits, Expectations, Learning, Parent modeling, Parenting
“You will not believe this story,” began the email from a client who had just returned from family services for the Jewish New Year. She described the mother and three children sitting next to her own family. “She was knitting!” (Yes, you read it correctly,... Read more...
:Character traits, Hypocrisy, Modeling, Parent as teacher, Parent bad behavior, Parent modeling, Parenting, Respect, Values
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Your Children Are Watching You!
by Betsy on Jul.19, 2010, under Communication, Environmental influences, Parent modeling, Parenting
“Coach Accused of Punching Son” The headline in the LA Times caught my eye. A youth baseball coach is facing a simple assault charge for punching his 9 year old son in the face after the boy was ejected from a game. Are they kidding? I read... Read more...
:Anger, Anger management, Parent bad behavior, Parenting, Respect, Values
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Don’t Take it Personally
by Betsy on May.28, 2010, under Behavior, Communication, Parenting
“You’re the meanest mommy in the whole world!” the seven year old screams at her mother, as she stomps down the hall to her room, punctuating the scene with a crashing door slam. There’s not much that’s good about that scene, except that it is well within... Read more...
:"I Hate You;" Children's Anger; Expressing Anger; Angry Feelings;, Anger, Anger management, Feelings, Respect
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Backseat Battlefield
by Betsy on Jan.26, 2010, under Behavior, Discipline, Parenting, Public Behavior, Safety
It’s not likely that your car arrived factory equipped with a chauffeur’s screen, the one you flip up at the touch of a button. So, what the heck is a parent to do when the kids’ fighting in the back seat drives you nuts.
To your kids, the... Read more...
:car fights, Fighting, Misbehavior, Respect, Siblings, Trips
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Bad Behavior…of Grown Ups, That Is
by Betsy on Sep.16, 2009, under Parent modeling, Parenting
This morning's treadmil conversation at the gym was livelier than usual. I announced that I just had to blog about the growing epidemic of bad behavior...of adults... public figure adults' bad behavior.
Whether or not my gym rat buddies felt Serena's tongue fault was forgiveable (It was, they thought--it... Read more...
:Modeling, Parent bad behavior, Parent modeling, Parenting, Respect
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